"Is Your Relationship In Danger?"
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“We're not getting along, we have fights and our relationship is on the edge.”
- If you're currently feeling neglected and alone, despite being in a relationship …
- If you feel like your partner is trying to change you and can't accept you for who you are …
- If you're longing to reignite the spark in a longtime relationship …
- If the pressure you're under is stretching you both to breaking point …
.. then you've come to the right place.
If you're in a relationship and you've wondered if you'll ever be as in love as you were when you first met. If you've laid in bed at night next to your mate but felt a million miles away. If after years of marriage you've drifted apart and feel like roommates but not lovers anymore. I want you to know that we can give you the tools to create the passionate, fulfilling relationship you deserve.
And if your relationship is good, but you want to make it even better, this is your chance for a new beginning. Don't wait until it's too late. Life's too short to postpone having the kind of love you deserve any longer. Decide right now to give yourself and your family the gift of a loving relationship .
Ask yourself these questions:
How will it impact your children to see their parents in a happy and loving relationship?
How will it impact your work, knowing that you don't have to worry about your relationship which frees you to concentrate on being the best?
How will it feel when you leave work knowing that your partner can't wait to see you at the end of the day?
The 4 R's of Relationship Breakdowns
Resistance
Resistance is normal. It's the little things that bother you – he leaves his towel on the floor, she talks too long on the phone. That's normal. You're going to feel little resistances with anyone who's human and different from you. The problem is what we do with those feelings of resistance. We don't talk about them, we gloss them over, we push them down, we deny them because we don't want to stir things up. The more they build up and the more we push them down, at some point, they turn into resentment.
Resentment
Instead of saying “Gee, I wish he wouldn't tell that same story at the party every time we go out.” Now, it's “I hate that story. If he tells it one more time, I'm going to kill him.” Now you're having a reaction and it's built up to a point where you are triggered a lot. In the second stage - resentment, you are starting to feel a wall between you. Your sex life is beginning to deteriorate. You'll say it's because you're tired and you don't have time for each other but you remember when you first met that you always found the time for each other. You're feeling little criticisms of one another. If you're the silent type, you don't say any of this out loud, but you're just feeling a little distant. And again, most people won't do anything about it. They push it down. They try even more to make things look like everything's okay, and then things turn into stage three because the tension has built to the point where now you are not just feeling resentment, you are feeling rejection.
Rejection
You are protecting yourself. You put up a wall between you and this other person. This is in a relationship where you're having definite sexual problems or lack of desire. You are either having an affair, thinking about it or just leading very separate lives. You don't see each other much. But everything is ‘fine'. This stage can go in one of two directions. Either, the relationship ends, you get divorced, you leave, you break up. Or, you do what most people do, you go into major denial. Push it all down, so that you make peace and then you go into stage four which is repression and you repress it.
Repression
You say that everything is ‘FINE'. I love him. I'm not in love with him anymore, but everything's fine. We went through a rough period for a while but we never fight, we never argue. Of course, we have no magic. We have no connection. We have no chemistry. This is the most dangerous stage. This is the stage where denial lives. Most couples walk around in denial. They have no motivation to change. The lack of passion affects everything else in their life. Chances are, if you're repressing your passion in this area of your life, you're repressing your passion in other areas of your life. It's hard to go out and be 100% motivated in other areas of your life when you're using so much energy to keep in all that anger and in this stage, either you stay that way and really get into a lot of emotional numbness or something triggers it and it blows up. This is the couple you hear about who seem to be so happy.
The good news is that you can go back from repression and re-create your relationship.
After working with Jo, our relationship has never been stronger. We communicate better, I'm not afraid to tell my husband what I think and he's receptive to that. I feel like that old spark is back and I love to be around him. Whenever something comes up, we create a space for it to be dealt with so that we don't build up the resentment that we used to. The effect on our family has been drastic. The kids are happier, we're happier and our friends and family are noticing. Thanks Jo. You've been a great asset to our family.
Mary, Melbourne
How would it feel to wake up and be reconnected to your partner and to your life, your passion, your dreams?
What is Relationship Coaching?
Coaching is a profound experience. Being coached with your partner strengthens your relationship because you learn to accept yourself and your partner at the same time. Throughout the sessions, you will discover where your communication maybe stuck, where you may be going in different directions, how to recognise what's most important to you and your partner and show you ways to restore the harmony.
You will learn how to recognise and manage your own feelings as well as your partner's, how to reignite your intimacy by speaking in your partner's language of love and communicate to them, easily and effectively.
Discover how to pay attention to your internal GPS which gives you the signals that tell you when things aren't quite right. Then you can nip them in the bud before they get to resentment.
What You Will Get From The Get Clear Relationship Coaching Program
• How to ask for what you want and get it
• Techniques for understanding and expressing your feelings
• How to stop the power struggles in your relationships
• Understanding yourself and your partner from the inside out
• Communication secrets no one ever taught you
• More self-confidence
• Improved focus
• Stress management skills
• A sense of belonging
• Increased level of personal responsibility
• A fabulous understanding of yourself and your feelings
• A positive outlook on relationships
Interested?
I am so convinced that the Get Clear Relationship program works, that I want to give you a taste of what you can expect. I want to offer you a 15 minute FREE consultation with me. That's right – me!
Not someone who has a script in front of them and no real interest in whether you create the relationship you desire or someone who is more interested in filling their quota than helping you have the best possible relationship.
You will have a FREE 15 minute consultation with Me – the actual creator and facilitator of the program. That's gotta make a difference.
Why should I choose the Get Clear Relationship Coaching program?
I've done all the work for you … you've just got to show up!
You see, I've done 90% of the work for you.
You don't have to re-invent the wheel ...
You don't have to buy truckloads of books and wade your way through the jargon loaded pages …
You don't have to spend enough money to feed a small country on hit and miss programs which leave you feeling great for a short period of time but don't really make any long term difference to your life …
Over the past 8 years, I've been actively seeking, collecting and implementing the key distinctions that make relationships successful. Now, I've put all that information in this program. Literally, the best of the best .
THE LATEST CUTTING EDGE TOOLS, TECHNIQUES AND METHODOLOGIES THAT I CAN FIND TO ASSIST IN PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS!
We have been running this program for the last few years with outstanding results. Our couples fall in love with one another all over again.
What do I do if my partner doesn't want to be coached?
This is quite common. Men often feel that they aren't able to expose their emotions. They are taught to suppress their feelings and feel uncomfortable expressing them. Women are raised to be open and freely express how they feel.
The aim of the program is for you and your partner to take control of your life and that requires some action. If your partner is resistant to the coaching process, we recommend that you start the program first. Your partner will soon notice the positive changes in you and want to have the same result for his life.
How many sessions do we need?
That depends. Each couple is different and has a unique set of dynamics they bring to the sessions. On average, most couples have made substantial improvements in their relationship with 10 sessions. The sessions last for 1 hour and are conducted weekly. They can be conducted over the phone for couples outside of Melbourne or in person if you live in Melbourne .
Yes, I'm interested - What do I do next?
Complete the online form below to find out just what is included in the Get Clear Relationship Coaching program. Make sure that you allocate a time when you will be free and I will contact you to discuss with you where you are now, where you want to be and how I can assist you to become the leader of your life.
Are you sure it's free?
There is absolutely no obligation for you to sign up to the Get Clear Relationship program . If you feel that this is not for you, that's okay. It's just 15 minutes of your time. Enough time to have a cup of coffee.
So, why not make 2009 the year that makes the difference to your relationship.
Just imagine where you will be in 3, 6 or even 12 months if you take up this opportunity. Just imagine where you will be in 3, 6 or even 12 months if you don't!
I look forward to working with you more closely in 2009.
Warm regards,
Jo Baker
Getclear.com.au
P.S. I have been mindful of creating choices suitable and affordable for everyone regardless of their age or situation. We have several payment options available to you to make sure that you get the best life you deserve!
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